Embracing the Journey...

As Life continues to move and years go by we all have those moments that we sit and think how well are we doing at it... 

I would be lying if I only shared the happy days and the spiritual growth in my life in hopes that alone would bring you closer to God however I know you would question why noone told you about the challenges that could have better prepared your mindset for the journey.... The truth is its hard being a person with a purpose for the highest King.. hell its hard to believe and follow God period! and anyone that says its not has made up their own set of rules how to follow Him.

I try to take each moment and each decision to practice living a better life because I can't grab this thing all at once and blanket my life by one decision.. I have to decide a million times a day to evaluate each thought, each action and each word and on some days this mindset works and some I fall and just get back up and recycle again. 

Following Him is important to me and I don't take it lightly however I do recognize the battles I face and fight against in order to reach my goal...whats the goal you ask? not perfection just closer.  I don't lead anyone to believe that there is one single way to be better at it... we all must find our way by EMBRACING THE JOURNEY. 






Its Not for Sale!

its not for sale!

People will fall in love with you. Your power and your destiny. They have no idea what they need from you they just enjoy the thought of being you.

I have had no problem in life finding friends, however i have had some that didn't have my best interest AT HEART. They loved parts of me and would replica those things in their own lives. They were my friends only because they were about to pull out of me things they needed.. like: confidence, strength, humor, safety, wisdom, beauty and loyalty..until later years i didn't start to recognize the patternS...  Once I was aware I was changed forever. At this point I was skeptical of relationships period.... I wanted to know what you wanted, why and what were you gonna do with it?

Always Be very careful of those that want to have access to everything about you, in other words they create the drama, want to solve the drama and comfort you as well....your everything huh? not quite.....i see OWNERSHIP, CONTROL, IMPOSTORS, FRAUD.....ETC.  

Always know that if God gave you something special there is a force that wants to duplicate it, stop it and destroy it. Hold tight to what you have inside of you and be reluctant to let people in...pray about everything and everybody!  

Outcomes can change...

In order to change outcomes we must change habits...we can not serve our purpose with repeated bad behaviors and choices of people that stop our creative flow... Don't live out of order and expect change....if we allow constant access to our minds from influences not in our future it will fail...Its time to move and live our fullest!

2Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance

Ecclesiates 3:1 1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens

Jeremiah 29:11 or I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Words I live by...

I don't feel like I need to preach to the world or nothing like that. I just feel like I share what I say, and if listeners get it, they get it. And I never underestimate the audiences ability to feel me.

~Erykah Badu

I am me... If that works for you cool... if you can't get with it.. that's cool too. I was born to speak, to lead and to emerge through my struggles with beautiful scars.. If my journey doesn't uplift, revive and support you then this is not the train ride for you.

~Joye Davis

I just think it is silly to be stingy with compliments. If you see someone and they strike you as beautiful in anyway, why not let them know.

jill scott

People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. but people will never forget how you made them feel.

Maya Angelou

Perhaps you were born for such a time as this.

Esther 4:14

Enjoy this Suga....

Friendships ....

Friendships are beautiful, spiritual, supportive and uplifting.... well..

And they are also hard, one-sided and breaking too...Do not get it twisted. If you are in a relationship that isn't healthy it can change your world.

I have experienced a lot of elements of friendships... the ones that last a life time and those that pretended to ...

I wish for those relationships where neither people are in the relationship other than companionship. Just to be there as you walk through life nonjudgmental, with a heart that says "I love this lady and her life"....they see you being a blessing to the world not because your perfect but because your not! those Chics I love! 

I have also experienced the friendships that have "invested" in you...the ones that befriended you because you were chosen to "rescue" them, somehow someway you were. They saw something in you that they don't have within themselves. Somewhere down the road that truth will emerge and you will see you were a "Thing" and not a "friend" ....because once your not able to deliver what they needed the relationship changes or dissolves ...

We can't always see the outcome of friendships but they always teach us about ourselves and others.....

I have learned that I will not change loving you where you are and where your going on your journey ....I just may not ride with you the whole way!  

 Enjoy this SUGA....